220 - Be Careful Who You Are Complaining To

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hey everyone this is russell brunson and
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welcome to marketing your car welcome to
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the marketing in your car podcast where
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you can increase your traffic
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conversions and sales in just 10 minutes
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a day and now here’s your host Russell
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Brunson hey everyone I hope you guys are
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doing Austin today I’m actually in the
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car now heading to go pick up my
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daughter from soccer practice which is
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pretty exciting she is amazing at soccer
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and so much fun to watch and so gonna go
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grab her and then head home for some
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dinner but has something been going
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through my head the last three or four
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days actually been almost a week now and
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I wanted to share with you have just
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been a super busy and haven’t had time
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to to do a podcast specifically about
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this and I thought you know I got five
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minutes on my drive over to soccer
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practice i’m gonna share with you guys
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really quick it’s not a long one i think
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it’s an important one so the title of
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this presentation is be careful who you
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are complaining to all right now the
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reason why is because a lot of times
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we’re complaining about stuff that seems
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like a big deal but you put in
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perspective of other people’s lives or
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even other people’s situations at that
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second and they’re not that big a deal
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and it kind of makes you feel like an
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idiot when you rise is sometimes um
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probably the most dramatic example of
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this is if you rewind 10 years ago my
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wife and I as you probably have heard
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had twin boys and if you’ve ever had
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twins it’s kind of a crazy amazing but
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crazy experience so we basically you
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know six weeks you know my wife’s put on
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bed rest she’s been taking all these
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drugs make sure the babies don’t come
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and six weeks early Austin water breaks
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boom babies are coming erase to the
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hospital all the craziness that ensues
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with that we get there and it’s not like
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a normal baby delivery closely we don’t
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have one baby which I’ve had three times
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since then so I know how it works it’s
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you and a doctor nurse all quietly in a
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room hanging out and a baby comes out
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like it’s pretty easy right when you
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have twins it’s insane like they think
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that you’re probably going to die
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especially this is our first kids we’re
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freaking out anyway they’re in the
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operating room and so huge operating
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this to NICU teams there’s about 50
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other people like chem exaggerating Lola
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but there’s probably 20 somewhat people
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in this room instead of being a nice
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dark quiet room I can know
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you normally give birth in it’s like lit
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up lights everywhere like just insane
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right so my wife goes through this
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experience baby one comes out boom
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everything’s great baby two comes out
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bridge which is a horrible experience
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but she gives birth to both of them and
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then we go and see the kids and their
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the NICU and the you know which is
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emotional thing because you see the
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babies come out and they rip them off
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and they racing down the NSE you and I
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had a chance after the both babies came
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out to run the NICU and see all this
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craziness happening and and you know
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Colette’s up doing whatever women do
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after they give birth I’m not really
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sure but kind of freaks me out to think
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about it so they did all that kind of
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stuff and then she gets coming later and
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since emotional experience she’s crying
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you see the babies with all these cords
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and wires it’s like emotional right and
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all these things are happening and then
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she finally gets to eat and drink and
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then we rise with like nothing for the
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babies to wear and so where I go so
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cluck gets cleaned up we jump in a car
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and we drive across the street fred
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meyer to go grab something for her to
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eat and for the babies and just like you
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know a couple of things right so the
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last 24 hours my wife has given birth to
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not one but two babies she hasn’t eaten
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hasn’t slept hasn’t drink I could just
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spend craziness right and I can’t
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imagine what that’s like but as me as
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the husband who’s just kind of
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participating watching this whole
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process I’m like this is horrible like I
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am so grateful as not me right and I’m
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tired I’m and I’m honoring I’m sore and
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I’m you know all these emotions I didn’t
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even do anything I just SAT there right
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and so we get to the to the store buying
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our things were checking out there’s a
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teenage girl there and she’s like so
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annoyed to be there and does not want to
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be talking to us and you know we’re
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we’re trying to be happy but we’re
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obviously worn out and I was like how’s
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it going shake okay you know like
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teenagers do all right oh yeah look like
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what’s going on shake just so tired like
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oh you are like what’s going on I think
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it’s like 11am at this time so it’s been
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like I know thirty hours since we’ve
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since we were woken up because my wife
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was about to have a baby right and hum
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say go ahead he get up early this
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morning gonna be here by 11 like give
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your Elevens what I need to get 9 i’m so
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tired n go to bed last until one my OC
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only headache hours of sleep last night
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and you’re so tired and we’re sitting
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there smiling like like like
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I think I can’t believe your complaint
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is about tired you are you an eight
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hours of sleep last night you’re a
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teenager of zero stress in the world in
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your complaining and it was kind of
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funny to us at the time right anyway so
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I thought it’s kind of funny last week I
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help these guys this is bliss in the
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podcast last week monday night at the
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office like three or four in the morning
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Tuesday was the same thing and I got
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three hours of sleep that night and then
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wednesday at a full day and then i went
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out with to go meet some people and
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talking with guys and he’s like i’m so
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tired i might all really like what’s
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going on say oh you know i got off work
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at like six and then you know kids and
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dinner and all the stress and you know
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whatever and i’m surely tired and I just
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kind of smile like oh man sounds
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horrible you’ve got to be tired I mean
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you know woke up went to the office and
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then you came home and then you were off
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the clock and then you saw your kids and
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you were done and that was it right like
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I I have been at the office till pastor
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him the last two mornings a row and
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after i’m done with you guys today I’m
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going back in the office and I like an
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expense malik’s I’m like you were
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complaining about being tired and and
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like it’s just it’s just funny cuz I
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cure your complaining to like someone
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who has had one-tenth of sleep that you
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have it and it just makes me kind of
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smile so what I want to show yesterday
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is just be careful you’re complaining
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too because chances are people around
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all of us have worse off than we do I
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saw my kids last night I was like you
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kidding about two hundred years ago
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people lived in log cabins they didn’t
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have toilets that flush they don’t have
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phones and have computers 200 years ago
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and everything prior to 200 years so 300
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years four hundred thousand five
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thousand like a doc as far as you want
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to go to the beginning of time like
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people had a really crappy time I didn’t
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live a night like if you complain about
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anything in this day and age like that’s
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kind of sad at this point I do have a
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roof over your head alright is your
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toilet flush okay you’re doing fine then
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quit complaining right and so not only
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should we all just quit complaining as a
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whole like when you are complaining just
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be careful you’re complaining to you
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because my chances are the person around
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you it just as tough a day if not worse
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and you’re just going to look dumb if
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you’re complaining to yourself to their
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to them about what happened so anyway
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that’s all I got for today I hope that
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helps somebody it helps that keeps us
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off and to quit complain and to be
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grateful for the roof over our head
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washing toilets and all the other
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amazing stuff we were blessed with
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because we were born in today’s date and
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time so that’s what I got for you guys
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today appreciate y’all have an amazing
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day and i’ll talk to get it all again
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soon bye hey everyone this russell
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brunson again I want to thank you for
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