326 - The Big Masculine/Feminine Problem For Producers

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life of a funnel hacker so let’s get
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started hey everybody good morning this
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is Russell up again you probably know
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that at this point but welcome mark in
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your car ok it’s good it is officially
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spring break here in boise since
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weather’s nice I mean the kids are out
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of school means wearing shorts last time
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kids at school we had our two weeks of
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snow days like two months ago so it’s
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nice to be excited so probably have a
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chance go swimming with them and playing
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in movies and on when I wanna talk to
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you is about is my struggle ok yes my
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guess is if you’re an entrepreneur you
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might have the struggle as well where
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it’s really hard to just be I don’t that
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make sense or not but like just be
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present in one spot and I’m thinking a
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lot about us with last day or two my
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wife was also at Tony Robbins event last
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week and so I was after that we had four
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days in her circles she left her in the
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fourth day and after that we have a help
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for the help Thursday and Friday and
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then saturday and sunday to call me in
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the kids and loved it but like it’s it’s
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hard and I mean it’s hard work yes like
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it makes you love and respect and
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appreciate your wife a million times
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more when you get a view mom and the dad
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but more so in that like I think it’s
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just different because like I work
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really really really hard probably too
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much so if you ask one of my people in
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my world but like I love it and I think
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I think it’s some like there’s there’s
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two types of work right there’s there’s
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directional and then there’s like
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circulus circular now knows that makes
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sense you’re not the kind of geeking out
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a lot recently on like masculine and
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feminine energy and things like that as
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well and like x off you go if you go to
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tony robbins date with destiny like his
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hold and relationships it’s
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fascinating and basically like it’s
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funny like no matter what problems
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driving relationship like if you go to
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regular counseling they try to fix the
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symptom of it right they go you need to
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talk better you whatever those things
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all right that’s that they’re touching
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upon but like the foundational breakdown
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of every relationship is actually like
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the loss of the polarity between
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masculine feminine so Tony’s whole thing
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is like don’t fix a symptom come back to
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the issue and like what happens as men
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start becoming women and women so
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becoming men and like as soon as the
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polarity from masculine feminine dies
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like the whole relation falls apart and
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it’s really fascinating that’s why in
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every relationship that successful or
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some masculine and feminine and
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sometimes the female is more masc the
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metals more feminine in fact essentially
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if you look at it the island on
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marketing topic but still gets me
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excited like you look at I’ve got
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friends who the men are more feminine
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and their wives more masc like almost
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always like like there’s a thing where
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like the polarity between the two has to
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match that’s what causes connection
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right it’s a Tony’s whole thing is like
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you fix that and you fix them in the
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masculine feminine so what happens but
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we’re going to go a little bit longer
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cancer then cuz I’m getting excited
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alright so what happens in a
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relationship right is you get married
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and there’s there’s the masculine and
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feminine and I don’t even care you know
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I’m not going to go get political and on
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political but like in all relationships
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right like from you know politically
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correct way to say it but like anyway
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I’m not going to go that part okay we’ll
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leave that there if you have for your
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imagination right any relationship
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masculine feminine right and so like
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let’s say you get married right and at
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first the man’s very manly and women’s
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very womanly and then they everything
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goes good and that happens is took a
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howl mask and energy working out
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feminine energy work shattuck semonin
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the way that’s that the FEMEN energy
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causes change is through criticizing
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right so women will criticize something
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to try to get them to change like it’s
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just kind of a thing that happens right
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believe or not it just happens to be
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that way and what happens at first is
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like the first year two years five years
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or seven years of marriage like a man
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national energy that doesn’t bother him
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it balances often in the fine but after
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a while like it breaks down masculine
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energy and all sudden suzman stop but
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the criticism keeps happening
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and and then also there’s a point where
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i also like it breaks men down and then
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they like and then also like they saw
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that they break from my being masculine
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energy like absorbing those things to
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like to like hurts their feelings and
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then also they switched like a feminine
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energy and as soon as they do that then
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like that’s absurd the deterioration of
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the relationship everything bad happens
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after that right soon as the man the
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mask n becomes feminine then women lose
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their attraction to the man and then the
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women are becoming more masc because i
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got to step up for the men and i almost
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have happens it all breaks the parts
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like Tony’s all things he shows you like
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when a man becomes a man again then boom
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instantly the masculine feminine
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polarity comes back together and the
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magnetism happens there and all the
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other problems fall away really
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fascinating and as I learned that at the
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time my wife I were both struggling and
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I realized the time I had become very
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feminine and I still struggle with that
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amount of parts of my life to be
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completely honest here I’m at work I’m
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very masculine and when I’m not some
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time to slip in my feminine but I any of
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the issues we have like it’s weird how I
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can tie it back to like me switching in
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my feminine anyway it’s really weird so
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why did I bring up this I bring this up
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oh yeah so as I’ve stay like mask and
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stem and try to understand like what is
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them and what is masculine like really
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understanding those things like
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masculine energy is more like moving
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towards something right like there’s my
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goal and you go hunt and kill him go get
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that thing where’s feminine energy is
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more like circular except that makes
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sense and so remember first time I kind
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of got this was with my wife I don’t
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know five or six years ago that’s one
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with the kids on like a long weekend and
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like I was struggling all day long like
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stressing out my colleague and she’s
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like what’s the matter like I don’t know
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like we’re just we’re just sitting here
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playing games same game over and over
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over again we’re doing this there’s no
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point any of this and I’m like we’re
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just were just here and she’s like if
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she talks a that’s the point like that’s
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and I got that i was like huh and as it
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was stopped I trying to get somewhere
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and sit back that’s common obstacles
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against tried to talk about earlier but
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like it’s more of a feminine energy like
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being able to like be and I be present
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and stuff like that and it was
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fascinating so like what’s interesting
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is like it was with my kids this week
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and I was like I was no smack stealing
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that when I feel having so much fun bike
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I feel things right I think what I was
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feeling
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as I was trying to identify the right
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I’m used to like going like here’s to
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here’s the thing go hunt and kill get
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that thing and come back and I’m like
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running all like I’m so comfortable in
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that in that zone or that whatever like
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I’m able to do that but then when it’s
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like just be be present and like just be
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with the kids it’s really really hard
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like either like really hard for me I
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don’t fit you guys fill out as well but
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she’s not like natural to me and so this
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weekend was really had fun clutch I like
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to do that and try like be present and
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try to like be there and it’s like this
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insane mind game with like my mind
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coming back like no go produce
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co-producing like no like I need to be
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present like this is where I am and like
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that the back and forth between those is
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fascinating my head’s i watch my
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struggle constantly and so this week is
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a spring break week I’m trying to like
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I’m trying fig I get more balance of my
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life because I I know about you guys but
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I think a lot of us struggle with that
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some look at that like okay how do I
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this with my kids how do I do that how
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do i be present and also have like the
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producing thing in me that I need to be
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able to that thing right it’s like today
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for example I woke up I yeah I woke up
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really early at six and I hadn’t called
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care and I had a bunch of projects like
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spent two hours it’s like produced and
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it was done I like unchecked and I
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looked my clock and said Karen outs it’s
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were 7 30 or whatever on Mike Kato 1030
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i’ma goin just be there’s no point and
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that’s the point and so I can went out
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the kids like I did good time we just
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hung out and it wasn’t stressful canoe
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that ten-thirty I was going to jump a
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car and come and produce and then I’m
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basically so I’m that this where I’m at
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now I’m driving the office climbing out
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the office of parking lot waiting but
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now i’m going to go produce or trying to
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get finite so it’s not like producing
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for forever I’m gonna fan out until I
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think four o’clock out of Dennis points
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i’m gonna go to produce a four o’clock
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at one big project got to get done and
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it was done the dress that had to be
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done like I’m gonna go home and we’re
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gonna need some of the kids watching
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lord of the rings we’re just gonna go
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and be be present and just like not
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produce which is gonna be hard but I did
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the same thing yesterday and it was
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really cool except for like right before
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we started watching the movie I always
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stressed these things I’m trying to
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figure out how I get okay I could create
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this thing while I’m watching the movie
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the kids i get done at the
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and I was just like no I was going to be
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present and I was worried about tomorrow
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and so I checked as I was able to turn
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that off and say okay I’m not a producer
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right now from this point at this point
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I was going to be and that’s the whole
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point then I can do it and I did and it
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was awesome and I had such a good time
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with him so anyway I don’t just help
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shoot at all but in my mind it’s it’s
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least last she’s been really cool and we
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tried to keep test announced whole week
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and I hope I hope I can keep rolling
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with it because it gave me so much more
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like good times with my kids and my wife
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and and it wasn’t uncomfortable because
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I was segmenting that so for me I said
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I’m started chunking my days it’s like
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this is my time to be a producer and
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this is my time to be and and be okay
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with that and when trying to just be
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present and be here I’m going to not try
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to produce my forget about production
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and moving forward like going after a
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goal because the goal is just to be
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there anyway hopefully help some you
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guys help me he’s helping me work on my
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entrepreneurial issues so hopefully some
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of what are you guys out there hear that
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and it helps you as well so with that
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said I’m gonna go produce go hunt
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something to kill and bring you back
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home and I’m excited for it’s gonna be
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exciting so I think so much charity yet
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