Do THIS and you will NEVER LOSE! I Wrestled Nick Santonastasso

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hey everyone

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um this is russell brunson i’m here in

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our wrestling room right now with a

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bunch of my kids and cousins and

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friends we’ve got special guests in town

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in boise today who i just got done

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wrestling which was so much fun

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i wanted my kids to get to know him and

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hear some of his stories and stuff

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for so many reasons and so i love it to

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kind of begin with if you want to tell

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them a little about your story

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yeah great it’s pretty open-ended when

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he says share your story i got a long

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story

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and so i’m 24 years old in 1996

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my mom went in for a late ultrasound

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they sat my parents down and said

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something’s really wrong

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and they said from the looks of it it

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doesn’t look like your baby’s limbs are

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being developed

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looks like he’s missing his legs his arm

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and his face might be messed up clearly

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my face isn’t messed up right and what

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they did was they classified me with

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what they call hand heart syndrome

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and han heart syndrome is a super rare

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genetic disorder

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that either leaves the babies with

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undeveloped limbs or undeveloped organs

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and so that means the babies are either

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born with a heart that can’t beat on its

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own or their stomach can’t you know

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process food on its own and they later

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on pass away and so they

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told my parents that their baby boy has

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about a 30 chance to live

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and my parents made a massive promise

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and that promise was that they were

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going to focus on the 30

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chance of me living and so i was born

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and the test of my organs came back 100

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healthy and the only thing that was

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affected were my limbs and so

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i was born in this unicorn body of no

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legs in one arm and

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all my organs are 100 healthy and would

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you agree that there’s

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always in your life there’s always

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something bad that you can focus on

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would you agree and would you agree that

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there’s always something good that you

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can focus on

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and so the majority of humans and you

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can agree the majority of adults always

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focus on

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the negative stuff and so if we can

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train our brain to always focus on the

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good things then we always win

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[Music]

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this is the accelerator and the brake so

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you’re gonna

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i usually push forward for um

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acceleration and i pull back on brake

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everything was hard you know when i was

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born like everything was hard right and

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so i always tell people like if you

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going into business or entrepreneurship

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if you have a bad relationship with

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failure and rejection this is the wrong

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thing for you because we’re gonna

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experience it all the time right and so

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the you know failure is feedback like

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like don was saying the faster you fail

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you tweak and you come back and you

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figure out

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what what can you learn from it the

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majority of people though

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they asked the disempowering question

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why did i fail and why does this happen

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to me yeah what’s wrong with me right

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and like the way that our brain works is

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it’s

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it’s a problem solver so if you ask a

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bad question you’re gonna get a bad

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answer

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and so i i like to ask even teach the

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kids this is like what what did i learn

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from this

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and that way you you take a winning

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lesson from it and there’s a quote by

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nelson mandela that i love he says

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in life i don’t lose i only win or learn

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but it’s our job to program our brain to

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win or learn we don’t just

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always win or learn right and this is i

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think we’ll tie into i know what a lot

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of the conversation today is going to be

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about

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um so my junior year i i came in the

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season i was like i was gonna be state

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champ that was like my goal i was ready

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um and the very first match uh i went

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against a kid who took second the year

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before and i was like okay

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like this is my shot to prove that i’m

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as good as i think i am in my head right

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and i go out there and i wrestle them

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and i get beat pretty

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pretty good and it was just like

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devastating and my good old dad was

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there with the video camera films the

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whole thing

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and i got home that night and i just you

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know just depressed i want to go high

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and just

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super embarrassed and um so i go to bed

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that night and my dad

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jumps up goes and you know puts the tape

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from the camera and thing and starts

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watching the match over and over like

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i don’t think he slept the entire night

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the next morning i woke up and getting

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ready for school my dad’s like come here

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like i know i know how to beat how to

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beat this guy pulls me on the carpet

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and he’s like show me the move and what

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he did and i was just kind of annoyed at

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first but he kept showing me he’s like

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this is how he did and this is what he

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did how his positioning wasn’t he had to

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learn from it and it got better and

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better and better

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at learning how to do it and i didn’t

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wrestle the guy again the entire season

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until telestate tournament we were

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it was me against him and my dad’s like

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all right you’ve wrestled him

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every morning and every night for the

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last four months like we know how to

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beat him

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not only did i beat him i literally the

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move that he beat me with is the move

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that i beat him with so i got

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so good at his moves countering my dad

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by practicing with it and

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beating him with that and when i learned

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my dad that day was like if you lose

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that’s not you lost it’s like okay we

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figured out what was wrong now we can

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make adjustments how do we make the

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tweaks and the changes and

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figure out how to win and so it’s funny

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because in business now we’re same way

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we launched a funnel and you can ask my

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team like we launched him like it’s not

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going to work this is good out there

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and we start driving traffic and look at

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the stats we figure out all the tweaks

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and the changes to figure out how to

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make it how to make it work

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and that was like from wrestling

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probably the biggest lesson i got was

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just that of like

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failing quickly and then seeing what the

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problems were and then that’s where you

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start making the tweaks and adjustments

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and the changes

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to get better and better and better over

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time yeah failing forward adapting yeah

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you always do that yeah and just put

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yourself in there put yourself

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in an environment to fail because if

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you’re not there you’re not gonna learn

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you’re not gonna adapt

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i just want because like one thing i

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think a lot of us people don’t do is

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like

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we dabble in things we’re like oh we’ll

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try this i’m going to try this and try

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this but when you decided i’m going to

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be a bodybuilder it wasn’t just like

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dabbling right you shifted your

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environment shifted everything you’ll

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talk about kind of the process there and

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what you did

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to be successful yeah what humans have

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we all have it is shiny object syndrome

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and so we try to do one thing and we’re

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like oh maybe i want to try this over

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here and so

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when i wanted to become a bodybuilder i

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was living in new jersey and

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it’s very cold in new jersey most of the

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time and so i moved to florida

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and i wanted to become a bodybuilder and

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the first thing i did was found a really

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big muscle dude and i said will you

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teach me how to bodybuild you look like

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you know what you’re doing

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and that’s what we do in business right

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is if we want to do something we find

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out someone who’s successful

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and we model them and the reason being

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is because we don’t have to reinvent the

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wheel we don’t have to recreate

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something we just find someone who’s

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successful and we learn from them

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i became why i attempted to become a

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bodybuilder and when i moved to florida

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i told everyone over over a million

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people that followed me that before 2017

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was over i was going to step

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or hop on the competitive bodybuilding

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stage before the year was over

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and so i did a 12-week preparation and i

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dedicated 12 weeks of my life to

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training and health and fitness

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i was 10 weeks into my prep and i went

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to vegas for um

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an expo i go i go in the gym and long

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behold there’s

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dwayne the rock johnson and he’s

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surrounded by four security guards and

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he’s working out i’m like oh my god it’s

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the rock after about 45

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minutes of lifting his security guard

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comes over and taps me on my shoulder

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and says you’re nick right

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i said not many people look like this

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i’m nick

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and he goes can duane meet you i was

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like dude bring him on i’ve been waiting

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all this time

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and so you know they they bring me over

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into the corner and they bring the rock

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over and the rock gets on my level or

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tries his best to get on my level

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and he goes dude i’m such a big fan can

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i have a picture with you

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and on the outside i’m like sure bro but

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on the inside i’m like oh my god it’s

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dwayne’s doing the rock johnson

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right fangirling i blurted out all my

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goals to him i said i’m gonna be the

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first calvin klein model with no legs

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i’m gonna write a book i’m gonna speak

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all over the world

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he said nick you’re right because people

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like you and i they put us in any

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industry and we adapt and overcome

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after that i went back to florida and i

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competed in bodybuilding against

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full-bodied guys

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and i took third

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and i was like the first man with no

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legs one arm to jump on a bodybuilding

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stage and

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the quote the quote that i use is over

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the 24 years of my life i realize it’s

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not the physical body that holds us back

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but the biggest disability you can have

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what do you think it is

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your mindset great job you guys rock

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thanks for coming

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with us you guys and all right let’s

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give nick a huge round of applause

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[Music]

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um

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what’s going on guys i quit fitness and

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speaking

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basketball

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[Music]

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you

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