The Weird Part Of Success You Probably Weren't Planning On

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00:00
what’s up everybody this is russell
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brunson and welcome you to the marketing
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secrets podcast today I want to talk to
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you about something that as you strive
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in success it’s gonna happen to you and
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it’s gonna throw a lot of guys off
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because it’s not something that makes a
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lot of sense so the big question is this
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power entrepreneurs like us you didn’t
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cheat and take on venture capital for
00:21
spending money from our own pockets
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how do we mark it in a way the lets us
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get our products and our services and
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the things that we believe in out to the
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world and yet still remain profitable
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that is the question in this podcast
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we’ll give you the answers my name is
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Russell Brunson and welcome to marketing
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secrets alright everybody welcome back
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all right I’m pump for today’s episode
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because part of me it caused a little
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fire under me and then I realized I
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forgot that like this happens and and I
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think that happens to a lot of people
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and it either keeps them from success or
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it keeps them like the fear if it keeps
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up in a success or or worse to have some
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success it happens and then it causes
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like downward spirals check out those
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who are watching there’s our fill all
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the snows melted which are playing
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somewhere out there anyway um so this is
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interesting so as you are growing up in
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life and you were surrounded you start
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getting your network of friends and
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family and all sorts of stuff right and
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what’s nice things like your friends
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your family you like them all right
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because they connect to you that erst
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and you and the greatest thing happens
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like
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when people are miserable or they mess
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up or they have problems or whatever
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people relate to them right
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it’s the weird things like if you’re
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sick everyone relates to you like oh I’m
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so sorry you’re sick oh and if you’re
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like I’m overweight oh I’m so sorry
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overweight icon broke all my boss sucks
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oh my job oh cool I hate like when
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you’re miserable everyone will instantly
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jump in and infant empathize F empathy
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with you right and it’s really really
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nice and we get connection from that and
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we build friendships and things like
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that are interesting and this is like
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the worst you are the worst things are
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happening to you the more people give
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you low connection which is why a lot of
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people live in the zone where they just
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stay miserable because the more
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miserable they are and we’re love and
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connection they get and more
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significance they get how much other
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weird things even though it seems to
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backwards right so something weirds
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gonna happen all of you guys if you
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listen this podcast it means you’re
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gonna be successful and so you’re gonna
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go out there to try to do things
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differently and you’re gonna be trying
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things and working Holy Castle means
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don’t hit me
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we tried these definitely thinking
02:33
differently and like and and and it’s
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gonna be weird and you know these
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friends around you and you’re gonna be
02:39
exciting you telling me stories and at
02:41
first they’re gonna be like watching you
02:42
fail and like they’re gonna be there for
02:44
your failures things like rally with you
02:46
they’re gonna like be there and then
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something’s gonna happen you’re gonna
02:50
figure this game out and you’re having
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success and the weirdest thing happens
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you think that all your friends are
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gonna come back to you and be like oh
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man you have a sick sad thing you assume
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they’re gonna be happy for you because
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they’ve been miserable for you with you
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but they you assume and all the system
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we assume that because these people were
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miserable with us that they’re gonna be
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happy with this and the weirdest thing
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happens when you have success all these
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people who you thought were your really
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close friends who you thought we’re
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gonna be grateful and excited and happy
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for success you get it and then guess
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what happens they’re not happy for your
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success it’s the weirdest thing
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and it causes these weird emotional
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mental things for us as entrepreneurs
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where it’s like okay these are my best
03:34
friends why aren’t they happy and having
03:35
success and it’s sabotaging a lot of
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times just slip back to not being
03:38
successful cuz yeah you know what screw
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that I want my friends like me I’m gonna
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be I’m gonna be miserable and then like
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you’ll mess up in the book oh come here
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we’re all friends again that’s the
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weirdest thing so I wanted to share with
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you uh I’ve had a couple things there’s
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this guy that used to go to church with
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and I didn’t really know him that well I
03:56
kind of knew of him and it’s crazy
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apparently he messaged me on linked and
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this is like seven eight years ago when
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I first started going to church there
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and he messaged me on LinkedIn and I
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didn’t I had LinkedIn account and logged
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in and I didn’t know about it and
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somebody told me four or five years
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later the like he was he was saying that
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was really rude or something I’m like
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I’ve never even talked to him before and
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I was like find out why and apparently
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was because I never spawned it his
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LinkedIn message so rule number one
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don’t assume people are reading where
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you’re messaging him crazy so I wrote my
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login link in I searched through like
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five or six years of back messages I
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found it I was like oh man so I’m like
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I’m on Facebook I don’t I don’t check
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LinkedIn I apologize anyway say oh no
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where’s Nance all cool so my guy right
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then I end up moving go to different
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different we come in the Mormon Church
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come award so same Church of different
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Ward’s a different area different group
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congregation wherever you want to call
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it so I’m in the other congregation and
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just doing my thing and and like
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honestly you guys know this because
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you’re here like I’m just doing my thing
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right like I am obsessed with the art of
04:56
what I do so this is like me painting
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like this is business and
04:59
entrepreneurship is like this is my art
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so I’m doing it and then I’m obsessed
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with like this success that people going
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through that’s what we’ve been in the
05:06
last like last I way that we had a fad
05:09
event last week and in the three day fat
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man with 18 people spent to comma Club
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Awards like it’s crazy we’re doing
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multiple - comma Club like making
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multiple people millionaires a day right
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now and it’s like that’s what I’m
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passionate about right and I’m so fired
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for the people’s success we’ve got I
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think 10 to 12 people who passed eight
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figures this year and like it’s crazy
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it’s like that’s what I was I’m excited
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about right so apparently my friends
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comes let’s me it’s like hey you know so
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in summer yeah how’s he doing he’s like
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you know he’s been all right but like
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and it’s telling this conversation they
05:36
had I guess in this conversation he’s
05:37
like I’m not impressed with Ross I’m not
05:39
impressed he’s done everything I think
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I’ll tell him next to me talk to him
05:44
that my job I’m not trying to impress
05:46
him like I’m doing my art and try making
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was successful and just blew my mind
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like that guy’s like I don’t know that
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well but he should be happy for me Aiki
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I’m helping other people I’m helping
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tons of love success like why are they
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happy and it’s the weirdest thing
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there’s a person in not my not my medium
06:05
but in my family same kind of thinking I
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don’t I won’t talk too much the story
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cuz he knows maybe they listened I doubt
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it pretty sure they don’t
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but apparently every time somebody talks
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about clickfunnels in the family this
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person like stand up and walk out
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because they’re like so frustrated and
06:22
upset about whatever I don’t even know
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doesn’t make sense to me so I just want
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to warn you guys as you start having
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success a lot of people you love and
06:30
care about around you who you think
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should be excited for your success
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they’re not gonna be it’s gonna be hard
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and you’re like what like I fight I
06:36
thought you guys love me and they’re
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like yeah they they love I don’t know
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I’ve ever stood Tony Robbins admit you
06:44
PW and he was talking about this about
06:45
like
06:45
you know like when your I found
06:47
overweight they all love you to see shot
06:48
losing weight and your in healthy than
06:49
the right oh well he’s never in and like
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it instantly just turns on you so I just
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want you has to be prepared for that be
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warned for it and it’s understand it’s
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not their fault they just love I don’t
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know there’s something about wouldn’t
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like they can relate to the unhappiness
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they can relate to not have been
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successful and so it’s like when you
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start succeeding and doing these things
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it scares them to death and they’re
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scared that you’re gonna that you’re
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gonna progress past them are scared you
07:12
and leave them or whatever those things
07:13
are a lot of times it becomes a
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self-fulfilling prophecy because they
07:16
start not being happy for your success
07:17
and you fail they’re secretly like
07:19
hoping you’ll fail they’re like because
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they want you back to where they were at
07:22
so I can connect with you still and so
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don’t let that be a thing keeps you back
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because you got a gift you’ve got
07:28
something that’s your amazing it there’s
07:29
something that you can do to change the
07:31
world and if you if you if you succumb
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to that you you’re gonna lose that on
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that and people’s lives won’t be changed
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because of that and there’s mr. James P
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girl driving in behind me anyway I just
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want to share it because I’m sure some
07:44
guys of you they hit that are you’re
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gonna hit that and just be aware of it
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and second side of that is like when
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people have success like be excited for
07:51
them be that person who’s like man
07:53
you’ve lost weight congratulations oh
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man you’re making money that’s awesome
07:56
oh my golly be the person’s excited I’m
07:58
generally pumped when people are
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successful and it makes me laugh cuz I
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meet people all the time like and they
08:03
like talk about their successes and they
08:05
like they’re not proud of it but or like
08:07
they’re proud of it but they’re afraid
08:08
to talk about cuz they know that people
08:09
come back and like oh well yeah man you
08:11
sounds like got lucky oh good timing for
08:13
you like good time like people told me
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before I come in wrote when I want my
08:17
first state title I had a friend whose
08:18
head started wrestling stood him as if
08:20
he’d quit he’s like oh well if I would
08:21
kept wrestling had to be a state champ
08:22
to a Mike no you wouldn’t you quit like
08:25
my definition you never would have like
08:27
aa very successful business and people
08:29
like oh yeah well you know oh man I can
08:33
revise it some I’m saying that somewhere
08:35
and some nasty so I can tell I could
08:37
told my dad this would happen I guess so
08:39
lucky I wish I could find somebody that
08:40
Mike you kidding me so you remember the
08:44
last like 15 years while you were like
08:46
goofing off working 9:00 to 5:00 and
08:48
going to bed at night yeah I wasn’t I
08:50
wasn’t lucky i frickin worked my face
08:52
off and yeah and so it’s just funny cuz
08:56
people people are afraid to talk about
08:58
that so when you meet
08:59
buddy whoa maybe somebody and they tell
09:03
you something about themselves as
09:04
excited they’re kind of gonna limb
09:06
they’re probably nervous and scared
09:08
instead of being like I don’t know just
09:11
be pumped for me excited yelling like
09:12
holy crap that’s amazing and like pump
09:15
them up because if you do that you’ll
09:17
attract more people like that and that’s
09:18
gonna make everything easier for you and
09:20
your life better so there you go yeah
09:21
well helps the fog eat is here in Boise
09:23
today vlog Y all weekend long it’s kind
09:25
of cool anyway so to end this off only
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you guys know I’m proud of you I’m
09:30
pumped for you I’m excited for you the
09:31
more success you have happier I am all I
09:33
care about is your success and yeah find
09:36
people and surround yourself people who
09:37
are the same way and become that kind of
09:39
a person alright peace see you guys
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